Hatred Towards Muslims in UK

A Muslims opinion is not worth anything in the UK to a minority of people who despise Muslims. Any Muslim who has an opinion is quickly attacked with abuse because of what a certain minority of Muslims have done.

Why is it always Muslims that are judged? Have you read books and seen what our religion says before judging a Muslim as a terrorist? Muslims are taught as children to love others and our prophet and Quran tells us to love Muslims and Non-Muslims.

We should not be judged this way and told that Christians are clean and peaceful and were never involved in anything bad. I know for sure that it was not the Muslims who attacked M. Thatcher back in the day. All them explosions in the UK were not from Muslims and from UK’s own people and religion.

I am tired of being targeted and attacked for believing in my religion or having general views. Muslims are only being targeted and been marketed to be bad people like Hitler did with Jews because the West needs oil and sees our religion as a threat.

A Question: When do I at any point throw the ‘RACIST‘ card at this person through my ‘Status Update’ from a’ Twitter Trend’???

UPDATE: THIS PERSON HAS ALSO INBOXED ME NOW BEING MORE HORRIBLE AND RACIST WITH THINGS. LIKE “YOU ARE GUESTS IN UK” AS IF WE ARE SLAVES FOR THE BRITISH LIKE WE WERE FOR THE BRITISH EMPIRE PRE 1947. AND ALSO GOT TOLD TO “GO FUCK ALLAH”.

Is this what people think of us or me when I’ve never been racist to anyone or made any differences? I tell you there are no differences in Human Beings and the only difference is that there are GOOD HUMAN BEINGS and BAD HUMAN BEINGS!!!! I am offended!!!

A Muslim would not do any of the things that you hear about in the media. They are not Muslims and the Tweet or Status Update is trying to point out that ‘A Muslim’ is not all them things if they truly follow what God has told them.

Here is a image below of someone attacking me because I copied and pasted a trending tweet from a trending topic to Facebook:

Frustrated!!!

I just don’t feel okay at the moment. I am angry for some reason and I’m angry at certain people within our society in the modern World. There are many things that should be said or done which are just being ignored.

For example many people just talk about having a night out everyday of the week till the weekend finally arrives for them. Then they complain about not having money or having a hangover. I do not think many people stop and take time to reflect on their life and their actions. Many do not even stop to think about people who have died until someone close to them dies and that is when they remember life is not about partying 24/7.

Many forget to realise that they should have some shame and not just be half naked in town every night waiting for some guy to pull them. Of course you are going to be pulled and used if you are most nights looking desperate. Be subtle.

Life is short and we are all on a train and have to get off on our own stops. No one will help us getting off and we have to do it alone. It is best we make memories that are good and involves our families or someone we are going to have a future with for life. Time is our biggest enemy and especially for girls who do all that posing half naked at clubs or even in the day. You may think your youth and beauty will last forever but if partying is all you do then you won’t have anyone who loves you when you get past 40+.

You have a better life if you are using your heart to build relationships and not your body. Guys are not any better either because they play around with girls and then they are alone in their old age because they have no wife and no kids. Some despise their parents because they don’t let them do what they want but life is a funny. Thing is that when some will end up alone in their old age with their parents dead they will deeply regret not listening to them…this includes boys and girls.

I listened to my parents in time and I did something about my life and set myself on the right path!

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Follow me on Twitter if you like casual and random conversations with a well educated (Business Background) person. I Tweet random things but they are unique and sometimes just to express how I feel just like this blog. Sometimes they are thoughtful, intelligent Tweets and sometimes they are just in the moment.

Also I have developed two lists since joining Twitter. These lists contain any Newcastle Twitter followers I’ve come across. This is vast knowledge and can help anyone trying to read up-to-date Tweets just from Newcastle. However I follow 2,000 Tweeps now and I can not add anymore unless my number of followers from 540 are increased. So please follow me!

Below is the link to my Twitter page:

https://twitter.com/#!/naza733

People Changing my Mood!

I was in a really good mood today till someone on my Facebook left her chat on. That person is a good friend, think. When that person left her Facebook on someone started chatting to me and stated they were the profile users friend. Anyways I got judged before they even read any pages of my life. I got judged because I had an education, job and creative hobbies. Anyways below is the chat we had:

Facebook Friend: I mean like….whats your crack? (I.e what you all about e.g like and dislikes in gernal)

Me: oh k haha

Me: well finished uni in july..got a degree in business and marketing management. love marketing, creative stuff, swimming, music, tech, business stuff, art.

Facebook Friend: one. Didn;t ask for your CV two. Degree you do realise you meant as well have cut it out the back of a cereal box its worth that much soz to be harsh but I’m a bit of a big mouth.

Me: thanks for judging..

Facebook Friend: tahts what I do thats*

I’m a total keyboard warrior mind I’d be as sweet as pie if you met me in person haha

Me:well means alot to me and its a big reward for me cuz it paid off with the job i have. thats just ur perception..

k

Me: well u didnt be nice to me there

Me: i was just glad to tell u what i did and liked bt u made me feel bad abt what i’ve done in life

Facebook Friend: I also worked for student loans for 6 months and I fucking loath students with every inch of my body from speaking to them every day and they actually called me a fat bitch and black bitch so ya naa

Me: well its a minority of ppl.dnt mean everyone is like that. its like me judging people who i’ve never met just cuz of where they work or what they do in life.

i give ppl a chance before judging. bt it seemed u judged me before reading the book

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This spoilt my mood. What is it with people in Newcastle? Do they enjoy coming on Facebook to start a chat with me just so they can hurt my feelings. I hope these people who hurt me when I don’t target any individuals ever and bully them get what they deserve. I hope bad things happen to them and I CURSE them to suffer!

A Bad Day

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I usually post something on my blog on a Tuesday that is related to business, technology or love. Today I will not be posting anything new on YouTube or on this blog except this update about me. I am not very well and it is nothing serious but from what the nurse at the RVI hospital said after my treatment it made me feel strong. The nurse stated “you are a very brave person to endure so much pain”, at that point I wished my friends would appreciate me for who I am. I have usually tried to fit in with the British culture and society by communicating with people and copying their activities but still I felt I was not accepted because of my colour, ethnic backgroud, culture and religion. Many do not know me well enough to ever know my secrets, few friends who I did trust left me alone and caused me to mistrust others. If they had known my secrets then I would have been seen as a really strong person who does not give up and faces every challenge in life ranging from illness to education.

As humans we only try to protect ourselves from harm and this may be another human being who can cause harm. When someone you share your secrets with abandons you and forgets you as a best friend then you start to be cautious and never trust anyone until they have earned it. My standard to trust a friend has been that:

• Someone is willing to take the time and make the effort to arrange a meeting. (Without me having to ask to meet)
• Someone who understands your feelings and shares their own feelings.
• Someone who is their for you as much as you are for them.
• Someone who will still be your friend when single or in a relationship.
• Someone who is not afraid to call you a friend or be seen with you.
• Someone who is not afraid to show their emotions for their friend. (Friendly hugs & etc)

Its very depressing that many friends can not be like that. For me personally I have always been the friend to arrange a meeting, listen and show my support. Personally I have no friend who is happy to arrange a meeting with me without me initiating it in a conversation. I am very certain I don’t have a friend in a big city like Newcastle who has tried to understand my pain and be a good friend to make me happy. Many of the friends I know are too busy with their own lives, example boyfriends/girlfriends or just general stuff which they state takes up a lot of their time for me but are able to find time for other people.

What more can I say?

Thank you for reading this blog post. Look out for a blog post soon to be published called ‘Modern Friends’.

Should I Create a Blog Post on Muslim (Asian) Culture?

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I would really like to create a blog post and video about the difficulties that young people as myself have to face in the Asian culturue and community. For example girls in some families never have the freedom in the UK to study a degree in whatever they like. Many are forced into studying a PHD or Law degree just so the parents can score points in the Asian community and show off with pride.

People like myself have to sacrifice our own dreams and desires to give that pride and respect to our parents for the communities sake. Most would say “we don’t care” and will do whatever they want, for example marry whichever girl they want or live their life how they want to. However some people like me love their parents a lot and can not go to sleep if we have hurt our parents. If you love your parents then you feel their pain and its the same in any relationship, sharing pain and happiness is love.

I would want to go into more detail of what it has been like for the British Pakistani generation. I can tell people that these things happen in other Asian countries but they still happen in the UK and there is no one to help us because no one has yet tried to understand what we have to face. For example if a boy/girl were to do what they wanted regarding education, job, relationship/marriage then we be emotionally blackmailed to change our minds or be disowned from the family and community.

Many people consider all these problems to be related to our religion Islam but it isn’t. Majority of people take advantage of the religion when it suits their needs and cause harm to others. Majority of Muslims in the UK try to find love before their parents decide to get them married to someone who they have never seen or have the same level of understanding. British people I know who are or were my friends could never understand this because it is very easy for them. These people just party and move in with whoever they want and date/sleep with anyone they like without being questioned. For us Muslims its a sin to do all that and that is fair enough but even in our religion it is stated that a couple must be happy with the marriage otherwise it is not recognised by Allah (God).

There are many sacrifices I have had to make and I am sure there are many other Muslims who have had to do the same in this modern world. Muslims who do have freedom actually go over the limit and do things that they shouldn’t just for sake of acceptence in the British community. Many of these Muslims actually forget that we were once hated and kept as slaves and that their own ancestors suffered pain for them. And what do these Pakistani’s or Muslims do to thank them or remember them? Nope they don’t pray for them so they get reward in heaven. They instead be players/sluts and be very western with how they look and forget their culture, traditions and religion. Some can’t even cook the traditional way and have to go out and eat, unhealthy in many cases because food cooked at home can have fresh ingrediants and be cooked the traditional Asian way.

Most of the British people I knew always told me to do what I want and not bother with what my parents say. Now those people might not want to make their parents happy but I was not going to be someoen who hurt his parents. Now I have always believed that your children will treat you exactly the same as you treated your own parents. I would not want to be disrespected or be hurt by my children. There is a saying “Parents always do what’s best for their children” and I know whatever my parents do for me will be for the best..even if it means getting married to someone they say.

In the Muslim community we do not abandon our parents in their old age and put them in a home. Most British people do this because they can’t be bothered to take care of their parents in their old age and see it as a burden. In our religion it is rewarding to take care of their parents in their old age because they are the two gates to heaven and we are not going to put them in a home where they don’t have their family around them. Many British I have seen just leave home at the age of 18 and start partying, sleeping around and doing whatever they want. They never consider taking care of their parents and staying home. If you can do that to your parents then your children will also leave you alone. This is not a good thing because I always want to be there for my parents so I can look after them when they are old and maybe ill. I don’t want some strangers looking after my parents with no love for them and only seeing it as a job.

I do wish that in the Muslim community we were free to fall in love and marry that person. I can understand why that is not accepted because the word LOVE is just a word in this modern world. No guy or women can stick to the term LOVE and be loyal to his/her partner. Even Muslims guys and girls are behaving that way just  to acheive fun in life. Falling in Love is the best thing but many Asian girls or guys will not stick with that person and tell their parents they want to marry them. Those Asian girls and guys will instead just mess around with other people every few weeks, months and years. So maybe our parents are right to not give us the freedom of love and actually help us have a better life by getting us married to someone from back home who is faithful, loyal and will love you for life.

There is one advice that I would like to give which I have always followed:
There are two directions in life, the right and the wrong. If you take the wrong path you will find it easy at first and find success and happiness but it won’t last long and you will feel empty and alone in life. If you take the right path you will have to face a lot of difficulties in the beginning and be hurt a lot. But you will be successful and happy for a long..long time.

I have always taken the right path and I’m still facing difficulties and been hurt a lot..but I will be very happy soon because I will be more stronger as a person and not be one to give up and cheat in life.

I don’t know if people would like a blog post in more detail but I really do feel like as if I need to make people aware of what goes on in the Asian (Pakistani, Bengail and etc) community.

Marketing Is Not Boring

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Many people who are young and old have the perception that business or marketing is a boring topic and job. People who work in the business World may be seen as boring people who don’t have a life but that is not the case. People in the business environment are very enthusiastic people who have to think one step ahead of everyone around them. This is something which someone has naturally or learns over time, useful when working in an aggressive market with many competitors.

People who work in marketing or even study marketing are very creative, confident, motivated and enthusiastic. Now I’m not posting this because someone has said “marketing is boring” or anything like that. I am posting this just to make people aware of the personality that many marketeers have.

In marketing you always have the chance to be who you are and choose your project/work to reflect that. There is a certain element of ‘Freedom’ and ‘Opportunity‘ to be unique and create and implement for example a marketing strategy that no one has done before. That is what could set you aside in the organisation you work in or the business environment as a whole.

Personal Opinion

I can’t say for sure that many people who study marketing or work in it have the characteristics that I have stated above. I can state that many people who want to study marketing or work in that area are enthusiastic and like to have a certain amount of freedom in who they are and what they say. For them people its not all about the money but the satisfaction they experience when they see their work, campaign or strategies be a success.

If I had to describe myself I would say that I am a very energetic, enthusiastic, motivated, confident, talkative, creative and organised individual. People like myself have the ability to even motivate people around us and rub off characteristics onto them for a short period.  Sometimes there are people in this World who have a good combination of characteristics and if they were given a break to work at a large organisation then they could be appreciated Worldwide in the business environment.

Love Is A Terribly Beautiful Thing.

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Love is a terribly beautiful thing.
It makes you feel,
whether you want to or not.
Love creates a whole entire world specifically for you and your significant other.
That fatal attraction between two souls has been the inspiration for the most beautiful and the most grotesque of art.
It has been the beating heart of the world’s greatest romances and tragedies.

Love, especially true love, makes you feel,
whether you want to or not.
If your love is happy,
your heart soars above everyone else,
bringing you joy you’ve never known before.

However, on the other side of the coin,
there is sadness beyond compare.
When your other half is in pain,
your own heart cries out from your chest in agony.
Their strife is yours also to bear.
You can never pull yourself away from them,
no matter how much it hurts.

Why?
Because this is love.
For better or worse.
Love is a beautifully terrible thing.
You can never truly understand the depths of your own happiness until it had been joined with someone else’s.
Just like you can’t know the true bottom of your soul until you have shared in the pain of another person.
You become one with that other person, and in turn, you yourself become whole.
This is love.
Isn’t it grand?

Girls Wanting to be Fake in Newcastle!

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Just saw a tweet from a girl in Newcastle stating “gettting me blowjob lips next fridayyyyyyyyyy woooo! bring on the needles!!” Is there actually any need to change your natural lips? Do other girls agree with this sort of thing in Newcastle??? *I want answers*

 

As if this is something to celebrate. Your just being insecure about youself if you don’t like how you look and try to change how you look. When you’re born you are a beautiful person to your parents and everyone else, why change the natural look for something based on silicon! Girls in Newcastle and UK have no limits to what they won’t do, disgusting when there is so much else going on Worldwide and girls only thinking about applying fakery at every opportunity.

When Facebook Users Try To Control Your Life!

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You may wonder how is it possible for another Facebook user to even attempt to control your life when nothing on Facebook is actually real. Well they try to control you in every aspect before you even decide to post a status or photo and even comment on anything they have posted. You begin to think what you might post which will appeal to everyone and keep everyone happy but we all know very well that you can never please everyone.

If you decide to post a lot of status updates or photos then people start complaining about it by posting a status or commenting on anything you have posted. The whole point of social networking is to share furthermore there is no limit to how much you can or should share. If an individual wants his/her Tweets to be posted on Facebook via Twitter link-up then why shouldn’t he/she do that. An individual should not have to consider what others may think because the Internet is a place where anyone can say whatever they want to a certain limit. Many people on Facebook get abusive just because someone who is on their list has posted numerous tweets which are related to the latest trending topics. Facebook users try to control your life by saying that their ‘News Feed‘ is covered with your posts. In other terms Facebook users want others to somehow guess what their ‘News Feed’ must look like before posting anything.

It is not possible for an individual to know how another users Facebook ‘News Feed’ may look like because they don’t have access to that information. A Facebook user may have many friends and that determines how full your ‘News Feed’ may get if they regularly post content. Basically if your not going to make any effort to talk to another user then why accept their ‘Friend Request’ or even send one. From experience I have seen certain individuals who just stick to a certain group of people and never make changes in their life and communicate with the same people on a daily basis. They don’t like breaking barriers and communicating with someone new who can make them feel more refreshed for a few days or weeks.