WOMEN HATE “EQUALITY” GUYS – Part 6

I would like to point out that these are not my opinions and as my blog states these are opinions that are expressed and shared to be understood.

You must ABSOLUTELY ABANDON the idea that you should make women feel “equal”. Women don’t want to be equal with you, and, logically, they are even more repulsed by the idea of you making them “number one”. I know this is all contrary to popular belief, but remember, it was popular beliefs that screwed up most guys in the first place.

NO, NO, NO.

Women desperately want a man who is SUPERIOR to them. Men and women are NOT the same. Nor should they be. Nor do they want to be. Trying to make a woman feel “equal” to you will only make her feel that you are therefore an INFERIOR male.

Does a superior kiss the ass of an inferior? Does a king bow down to his servant?

No!

I’m not saying women want to be your slave, but they DESPISE the idea of being equal. If you show a woman “equal-ness”, she will feel ZERO sexual desire for you. You will be going right against nature and destroying any attraction she can feel for you.

NO MORE “EQUAL-NESS” WITH WOMEN.

TAKE CHARGE- THAT’S WHAT WOMEN WANT.

Over a million years, women evolved to NOT feel attraction for weakness. And, just as men are ruthless in their desire for a sexy looking woman, women are just as ruthless in desire for a man who is DOMINANT with her and with everyone in his life.

TOTAL CONTROL OF HER WORLD

You must wield all the cards in the game; your deck has to be stacked.

SHE MUST KNOW AND FEEL THAT HER ENTIRE WORLD IS YOU.

Her HAPPINESS is the privilege of having you.

Her MISERY stems from NOT having you.

How do you make this clear?

Simple:

First, be THE MAN always. And then, at the first sign of misbehaviour, DROP her. Make it clear, without anger, that you mean it. If you have been THE MAN all along, she will seriously regret what she has done. More importantly, the cause of that regret is the loss of YOU.

Then, when she comes back crying, KISS HER. This will RAISE her spirits tremendously and totally throw her off balance. And you will have clearly given her the lesson and the feeling that both heaven and hell are in your hands alone.

Does that sound cruel?

Well, the alternative is to become a doormat by not being in total control. Women LOVE to turn guys into doormats if ANY opportunity for it exists.

By the same token, women WORSHIP a man who IS in control. They CRAVE such a man, just as a man craves a hot looking woman. As a matter of fact, women are more ruthless in their quest for a dominant man than men are in their quest for a sexy looking woman, because a man typically can have sex with many women, and yet not invest much.

But a woman, by sheer biology and the dynamics of pregnancy, is investing much more in sex than any man, and therefore must be more ruthless in her search for the “right” partner. And the “right partner” for a woman has always meant a MAN, in CONTROL of everything.

It’s a fact, and better you hear it now than never. I once thought women did like “nice” guys. After all, I thought, “God could never have created a world in which those lovely fair creatures called women could actually sexually desire bad guys”.

Well, they don’t like abuse, but they do like “bad guys”.

NICE-GUY EQUALS GOOD-BYE – Part 4

I would like to point out that these are not my opinions and as my blog states these are opinions that are expressed and shared to be understood.

For millions of years, nice guys got demolished by bad guys, and often starved to death from losing out to the competition for resources.

That meant that the women who were attracted to nice guys would probably starve as well, and not reproduce as successfully or often. In other words, with time, there eventually were no women left with the trait of feeling attraction for “nice guys”.

It took evolution a million years to fully weed out any women who liked nice guys. The situation has become so dangerous, that it has reached the point where men must embrace the following creed as pure scientific FACT:

WITH WOMEN, NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED.

From an evolutionary point of view, the “war of the sexes” has meant nothing less than immortality or annihilation: Reproduction by having sex, hopefully with someone who has awesome (read: sexy) genes is our only chance to survive beyond our own deaths and into eternity.

This means that it only makes sense to find the best sex partner you can, and also to seize any opportunity to gain control in any way possible.

But in women’s minds, there is a specific irony: “If a man is controllable, he probably is a bad genetic catch not worth exploiting for genes!” But if a man is controllable but usable at least for his “nice-ness”, for his favours, money, etc, which he will provide for her (future) children, a woman will exploit these superficial elements that are not as integral to her genetic survival, and yet not feel attraction toward him. (In her brain, it’s hardwired like this: The most important thing she can get from a man is WINNING DNA, in his sperm. If a man is not confident, he seems like he probably has LOSER DNA in his sperm. Therefore, he would create loser children who may not survive and reproduce. Therefore, no attraction toward him.)

Of course, a man who relies on money and “niceness” may not even be the real father of “his” children! This is why it was so important for men to be the ALPHA MALE/the dominant male/the best catch/THE MAN, since otherwise, the chances of raising someone else’s child increased.

If you act like a pathetic man, forget it. You’re history.

When women act pathetic/meek/nice, it isn’t so harmful, because as long as they got pregnant, the child was theirs for sure. But the best assurance a man could get that the child was his own, was to have sex with many women, and/or to simply make himself so desirable that a woman simply would not likely feel attraction to anyone else. He had to make himself a good catch, which meant becoming more courageous, a better hunter, defender, etc. In other words, for sexual value, a man relied on his “masculine” characteristics and LEARNED ABILITIES.

These abilities and character traits are what women needed from men. Whereas a woman’s sexual worth primarily came from her looks, a man’s value came from what he could do. And acting without confidence makes a woman think you can do NOTHING. It is suicide to your success with women. That is why your behaviour is so important. So not only is “nice-ness” the opposite of masculine, not only is it totally unsexy to women, but women will definitely EXPLOIT it even though they feel no sexual attraction to it.

Sucks, huh? But it’s true.

A woman will usually interpret a good deed as a sign of weakness and inferiority. She will lose attraction to you, and see “an opening”, an opportunity, to use you only for your favours. She will slowly wrest all the power away from you. She will try to use you as far as you will allow.

The more you let her push, the more she will feel you are an inferior male, therefore the more attraction she will lose for you. Simultaneously, she will try to use you more and more exclusively for your favours, since those favours are the only use you have to her. Also, there will be no reason left for her to even pretend that she likes you, since you are already giving her everything- and it seems to her like you always will!

Giving a woman “everything” once seemed like a logical way to make her like you, right? I’m glad that now you know it’s a sure-fire way to make sure she feels NOTHING for you but revulsion.

ANTI ASS-KISSING 101 – Part 3

I would like to point out that these are not my opinions and as my blog states these are opinions that are expressed and shared to be understood.

ANTI ASS-KISSING 101

“I LOVE YOU” = ATTRACTION SUICIDE

“YOU’RE SO BEAUTIFUL” = ATTRACTION SUICIDE

In a similar vein: DO NOT TELL A WOMAN YOU HAVE RECENTLY MET THAT YOU LOVE HER.

Second worst; don’t tell her “You’re so beautiful”. Or anything like that.

Most guys tell an attractive woman that they love her, or they comment on her beauty, way too soon. Or they just kiss up to her in a million other ways- it’s NEVER justified. Saying, “I love you”, before at least knowing a woman for a few months, makes you look desperate and it makes you look stupid.

How can you love someone you barely know?

She knows what you really mean is that you lust her. That means she is in control. This also takes away all the positive sexual tension that could have worked to your benefit had you NOT given over all the power. You have given her the entire deck of cards, so to speak.

THE MAN is confident in his own sexual worth, and does not say things like “I love you” for at least a few months. And even after this period, when a woman has shown she is worthy of love, he does not become a geek and start kissing her ass with frequent compliments and statements of “I love you”.

Kissing up to women makes you your own worst enemy. It makes you look like an inferior who has to kiss ass to get love. It’s also unoriginal:

Every guy already kisses her ass- she doesn’t want another ass-kisser!

Let’s say you’re at a bar or wherever, and you decide to sit beside some woman. Don’t project that you are trying to get her approval. For example, don’t even face her with your body. You can turn your head, but when you talk to her, don’t even turn your body UNTIL she shows you some good feedback, or gives a good smile, etc.

In other words, when with a woman, show that you are not under her spell.

Common ways to show you are NOT under her thumb are NOT smiling much, not getting excited when she talks to you, not giving her your ultra-focused attention, playfully teasing her, and my favourite is…

Letting her know that she must pass YOUR standards. Not only does this eliminate her potential inner resistance, but it also makes you appear HIGHLY IN DEMAND by other women.

You can combine the concepts of not being a “nice guy”, and cognitive dissonance, in the bedroom:

Anytime you ask a woman to do something for you, you’re back to ass kissing behaviour. To her, it means you are politely asking for something, because you don’t believe she really wants to do it for you on her own. And women interpret your “asking” as you not being worthy of her wanting to do it out of her own desire.

Better to help her realize it’s HER pleasure as well.

In general, by not kissing a woman’s ass, you show that it is in her interest to try to build rapport with YOU, and that you do not need to get on your knees to build rapport with HER!

Remember that women are not your guy buddies. With guy buddies, you

don’t have to prove much. You don’t have to prove that you are THE MAN.

(Although you should never be a “pushover” anywhere.)

Women WANT A MAN WHO DOESN’T GET ON HIS HANDS AND KNEES FOR THEM. A man who does not NEED OR BEG for things. Women want to feel that their desire for a man is CARNAL. They do not want to feel that their desire stems from “I owe him”. “I owe him” is weak and pathetic. CARNAL is overwhelming. Picking up girls is really one of the easiest things on earth once you understand that women WANT MASCULINE MEN very badly. They want MEN, not effeminate ass-kissing creatures!

Women want to have wild sex with real men. It’s that simple. Once you realize that, your world will change. Every time that you catch yourself thinking that women like “nice guys”, get this image into your mind: Women at a strip club (where the men strip), including hot women and girls, who don’t need to be there since they could get plenty of men easily.

Are you going to tell me that you believe women when they say they go just for fun?

As if it was non-sexual fun?

Well, let me tell you something: Women are SEXUAL, LUSTING CREATURES.

Just enjoy the greatest privilege that comes with being a man:

TAKE CHARGE AND DON’T GIVE A DAMN WHAT WOMEN SAY.

WOMEN ONLY LOVE MEN WHO DON’T LISTEN TO THEM!

Nice guys are always doing what women say, and women despise this weak behaviour. If a girl ever calls you a jerk, breathe a sigh of relief. Casually reply, “Thanks for the compliment.” Show you don’t give a damn what she thinks. (Besides, it is a compliment since women love it!)

Male Sexuality: Why Women Don’t Understand It – And Men Don’t Either

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Male sexuality is not simple. It is not primarily driven by hormones, nor is it intrinsically stronger than that of women. At their deepest level, most men don’t see women as things, conquests, or simply means to a sexual end. Most men don’t hate women but worry about them; they don’t feel superior but often inferior; and they aren’t irresponsible but often feel too responsible. Men may actually have more power than women, but they usually feel as if they have less.

They may appear not to need women, but are more likely to feel secretly as if their needs are bottomless. The real reason that men sometimes put women down is to avoid feeling put down themselves. The real reason that some men abandon women is to to avoid feeling abandoned. Men themselves rarely understand their own sexuality, a fact that contributes to the misconceptions that women have about them.

Men are not only less willing in general to be introspective than women, but are also more likely to feel shame about the ways that their sexual preferences are based on emotions deemed weak, or on feelings like guilt, worry, helplessness, and inferiority. Further, men are particularly ashamed of fantasies that appear to violate traditional masculine norms. Such embarrassment contributes to a general fear of self-disclosure in men and leads them to shut down in conversations with women about sexual matters.

One of the great potential benefits of the theory of sexual arousal presented here is that not only can women come to understand their male partners better, but also men can reduce their shame about their own sexuality. Male sexuality has to contend with special versions of two powerful emotional states: guilt and loneliness.Women share these feelings but in a different way. To the extent that masculinity has to involve a rejection of femininity, men feel both hyper-responsible for women and have difficulty connecting with them. Such painful feelings are highly personal but also profoundly social. Consider the central psychic role of guilt. Our culture contributes mightily to its intensity and repressiveness. For example,we devalue old age and celebrate youth, prejudicial attitudes that lend a certain reality to the survivor guilt that people feel about surpassing their elders, about leaving them behind. And our societal ideal of individualism further accentuates separation guilt because it contains the expectation that children will move away from home, start their own families, and “make it” in society without the help of kinship networks.

In our culture, guilt is regularly evoked and exacerbated by the drumbeat about independence and the virtue of leaving one’s family. The “good life” in our culture is based on separation and autonomy, not on familial or community engagement, and such an ethos makes us more vulnerable to feeling disloyal and guilty about excluding loved ones from our lives.

Consider what might happen if our society provided families with more help in raising children, more opportunities for love and attachment than one or even two caretakers can provide. What if we were able to introduce more balance and flexibility into our ideals of masculinity and femininity? Perhaps then we could create families in which boys no longer had to push away from their mothers with such rigidity and girls no longer had to feel so guilty about being strong.Men might feel less burdened with responsibility and feel less inclined to use their sexuality to avoid it. Grown women might feel less survivor guilt about having pleasure and might be able to enjoy more varied and less inhibited forms of it with greater impunity.

The result might then be a more liberated and healthy type of sexual connectedness between the sexes. As we’ve seen, men today are lonelier than ever, and such isolation is fertile ground for a growing interest in pornography and Internet sex. Men today are not only isolated by the type of masculinity that they developed growing up, a masculinity that seemed to require an especially forceful push way from their mothers, but they are isolated merely by adapting to their normal social role. And yet there are millions of Joes who work every day at jobs in which they are cut off from peers, who go home to families who don’t know their neighbors, and raise children without the benefit of the extended families and support of past generations. These men are subject to a type of everyday loneliness and isolation that is so normal few would complain about it.

These same men, if they don’t turn to drugs or alcohol for relief, seek out a male culture of camaraderie based on objectifying women, or have affairs with women for whom they feel no responsibility, or spend hours with their porn collections and computer monitors fantasizing about being connected to women who want nothing more than to make them happy. Their wives suffer the same types of isolation, of course, although women tend to be more embedded in supportive relationships than men. But the forces that drive men apart do the same to women.

The solution to the problem of alienation in our society is to recognize that both men and women need to feel connected, need communities in which they feel recognized and safe, and need to have work in which they feel they’re making a contribution to something bigger than themselves. Both sexes need lives that are more engaged with other people while at the same time embracing the freedom to be selfishly pleasure seeking. Sex, after all, is about being separate and joined at the same time. The fact that men tend to emphasize the former and women the latter is not an irreducible fact of gender, but the result of asymmetries in childrearing and socialization. But more than that, such tensions reflect the fact that in our society as a whole we don’t know how to be involved with one another without feeling burdened or selfishly indulgent without feeling guilty. If we can solve this problem on a societal level, it will go a long way to solving it in the bedroom.

However, it won’t go all the way. Sex will always be complicated.