I would like to point out that these are not my opinions and as my blog states these are opinions that are expressed and shared to be understood.
ANTI ASS-KISSING 101
“I LOVE YOU” = ATTRACTION SUICIDE
“YOU’RE SO BEAUTIFUL” = ATTRACTION SUICIDE
In a similar vein: DO NOT TELL A WOMAN YOU HAVE RECENTLY MET THAT YOU LOVE HER.
Second worst; don’t tell her “You’re so beautiful”. Or anything like that.
Most guys tell an attractive woman that they love her, or they comment on her beauty, way too soon. Or they just kiss up to her in a million other ways- it’s NEVER justified. Saying, “I love you”, before at least knowing a woman for a few months, makes you look desperate and it makes you look stupid.
How can you love someone you barely know?
She knows what you really mean is that you lust her. That means she is in control. This also takes away all the positive sexual tension that could have worked to your benefit had you NOT given over all the power. You have given her the entire deck of cards, so to speak.
THE MAN is confident in his own sexual worth, and does not say things like “I love you” for at least a few months. And even after this period, when a woman has shown she is worthy of love, he does not become a geek and start kissing her ass with frequent compliments and statements of “I love you”.
Kissing up to women makes you your own worst enemy. It makes you look like an inferior who has to kiss ass to get love. It’s also unoriginal:
Every guy already kisses her ass- she doesn’t want another ass-kisser!
Let’s say you’re at a bar or wherever, and you decide to sit beside some woman. Don’t project that you are trying to get her approval. For example, don’t even face her with your body. You can turn your head, but when you talk to her, don’t even turn your body UNTIL she shows you some good feedback, or gives a good smile, etc.
In other words, when with a woman, show that you are not under her spell.
Common ways to show you are NOT under her thumb are NOT smiling much, not getting excited when she talks to you, not giving her your ultra-focused attention, playfully teasing her, and my favourite is…
Letting her know that she must pass YOUR standards. Not only does this eliminate her potential inner resistance, but it also makes you appear HIGHLY IN DEMAND by other women.
You can combine the concepts of not being a “nice guy”, and cognitive dissonance, in the bedroom:
Anytime you ask a woman to do something for you, you’re back to ass kissing behaviour. To her, it means you are politely asking for something, because you don’t believe she really wants to do it for you on her own. And women interpret your “asking” as you not being worthy of her wanting to do it out of her own desire.
Better to help her realize it’s HER pleasure as well.
In general, by not kissing a woman’s ass, you show that it is in her interest to try to build rapport with YOU, and that you do not need to get on your knees to build rapport with HER!
Remember that women are not your guy buddies. With guy buddies, you
don’t have to prove much. You don’t have to prove that you are THE MAN.
(Although you should never be a “pushover” anywhere.)
Women WANT A MAN WHO DOESN’T GET ON HIS HANDS AND KNEES FOR THEM. A man who does not NEED OR BEG for things. Women want to feel that their desire for a man is CARNAL. They do not want to feel that their desire stems from “I owe him”. “I owe him” is weak and pathetic. CARNAL is overwhelming. Picking up girls is really one of the easiest things on earth once you understand that women WANT MASCULINE MEN very badly. They want MEN, not effeminate ass-kissing creatures!
Women want to have wild sex with real men. It’s that simple. Once you realize that, your world will change. Every time that you catch yourself thinking that women like “nice guys”, get this image into your mind: Women at a strip club (where the men strip), including hot women and girls, who don’t need to be there since they could get plenty of men easily.
Are you going to tell me that you believe women when they say they go just for fun?
As if it was non-sexual fun?
Well, let me tell you something: Women are SEXUAL, LUSTING CREATURES.
Just enjoy the greatest privilege that comes with being a man:
TAKE CHARGE AND DON’T GIVE A DAMN WHAT WOMEN SAY.
WOMEN ONLY LOVE MEN WHO DON’T LISTEN TO THEM!
Nice guys are always doing what women say, and women despise this weak behaviour. If a girl ever calls you a jerk, breathe a sigh of relief. Casually reply, “Thanks for the compliment.” Show you don’t give a damn what she thinks. (Besides, it is a compliment since women love it!)