Metro Last Light


Metro Last Light is one of them post apocalyptic games that you just have to play and see what the future is for humans in the gaming world. Fallout is a game I’ve always enjoyed but this is much better with the graphics and with how there is steam, fog and other elements to make it look real. I won’t give away much but the game is full of life and on PC it is much better. You get a sense of how humans have ended up fighting one another and continued to do so for resources and the Metro even after so much bloodshed.

Some of the story and elements of the game just indicate that us humans can never change and be peaceful. Our greed gets the better of us and always wants some resource or land just like you will find out in this game. But the character you play is trying to find that peace that most of us normal humans want. Politics however is the main cause again for conflict and other issues that arise for you as a play.

There are some videos I uploaded of the game but they are mostly to show the good life in the Metro and how weird the character can forget the horrors of his life and just get a lap dance.

UPDATE: Guess what I had to remove those videos because of some copyright issues because of the music in the game. How stupid is this and frustrating that you can’t upload some gameplay to YouTube these days even if you own a game and are not stealing any music. The music is part of the game and the environment. Anyone help?

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Why men are becoming more attractive?


You may be getting more handsome and even smarter. But don’t take my word for it – it’s science!

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Can we just say how fine you’re looking today? Somehow you look taller, a little more muscular, a bit smoother.

And you’re on good form with the chat, too. If we’re not very much mistaken, you’re as witty and sharp as you’ve ever been. We’re guessing that if you decided to chat up a girl in the bar tonight she’d be putty in your hands.

You may think we’ve gone mad – and you may well be right. But that’s not the reason for this outpouring of obsequiousness. If you’re a man, you’ve probably never looked or sounded better. Here’s why.

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Partly, it’s evolution

But that’s not the whole story. The fact is, we’re all getting a tiny bit more attractive to women, whether we spend money at the beauty salon or not.

And that’s down to evolution. When we think of evolution, we tend to think of something that happened long ago, to our cave-dwelling, thick-browed ancestors. Not so, says Dr Virpi Lummaa, from the University of Sheffield‘s department of animal and plant sciences.

“It is a common misunderstanding that evolution took place a long time ago, and that to understand ourselves we must look back to the hunter-gatherer days of humans. Humans continue to be affected by both natural and sexual selection.”

So what’s that got to do with your pulling chances tonight? Well, according to Dr Lummaa’s research, it means that human traits are still evolving to increase their chances of mating success. And this is happening faster in men than in women.

Man hiking atop Tork Mountain with Upper Lake and Black Valley in the distance. (© David Epperson-Photodisc-Getty Images)

Dr Lummaa’s study looked at detailed church records of almost 6,000 Finns born between 1760 and 1849, and analysed their mating success and fertility. It found that sexual selection is still happening in human populations.

Co-author Dr Alexandre Courtiol, from the Wissenschaftskolleg Institute for Advanced Study in Berlin, said: “Characteristics increasing the mating success of men are likely to evolve faster than those increasing the mating success of women.

“This is because mating with more partners was shown to increase reproductive success more in men than in women.”

And what characteristics increase the chances of mating for men? The research speculates that men may be getting better looking (from a female point of view) and more intelligent even. Because if sexual selection is still taking place in humans, and these are traits women find desirable in men, men will slowly adapt to fit the ideal.

Women will evolve to fit male ideals too, but at a much slower pace because they don’t have an evolutionary need to mate with multiple partners.

Evolution may have equipped men to be more intelligent than women anyway. If there are any women reading, don’t shoot the messenger. Psychologist Professor Richard Lynn has written that, on average, adult men score five IQ points higher than women.

He claims that this is evolution at work. When our ancient forefathers hunted for food it took all their cognitive powers to bring home the bacon (or venison) day after day. That resulted in men evolving proportionately bigger brains than women.

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Partly, it’s progress

Evolution is a very slow process, however. Scientific and technical advances are also working to make men more attractive to women.

For example, it’s largely improvements in childhood nutrition that have made both genders, but men in particular, taller then ever. Studies show that height is a physical trait women appreciate. Good childhood nutrition has also been linked to higher IQs.

The upshot of all this is that men fit female ideas of attractiveness better than at any time in human history. Our faces may be, on average, more symmetrical and more appealing, our bodies taller and our brains sharper. Add to that the time and money we’re spending on self-improvement and there’s only one possible conclusion: boy, you’re looking fine!

 

5 Things That Men Won’t Admit


1. We Need Help

As men we believe we can achieve anything if given the time and opportunities. Many of us don’t like to admit defeat and ask for help, instead we will keep trying just to prove to another man or women that we are useful. We don’t like to admit defeat because it will make us look weak compared to other men and we don’t want to lose our self respect in front of a women.

I do agree that this sounds very old and crazy but this is in our human nature and we like to be seen as the strong reliable type of men for the ladies around us.

2. We Were Wrong

Admitting that we were wrong triggers an instant thought in our minds saying “Others won’t rely on you” or “You are indecisive and don’t know what you are doing”. This makes us try to make the wrong into right and this is usually the cause of arguments in a relationship. However admitting as a man you were wrong doesn’t make you weak but in fact helps you reflect on the mistakes and make improvements.

3. We Can’t Survive Without A Women

Men simply won’t easily admit to his fellow lady that he can’t survive without her because it is our human instinct that tells us to protect and care for the lady. We don’t want to be seen as the one who needs protecting from a women or can’t survive without her because women want their man to support her needs and protect her and any children she has with you.

4. We Like All Women

Believe it or not but men have it in their human instinct to like more than one women. Yes some do cheat but not all men are the same. Many men will be loyal and committed to one women but he will still like any other women in general because it’s integrated into our human nature to pass on our genes successfully. Women want to be cared about and have a man who loves only her and will not abandon her and the children.

Like I said not all men are the same and we do like to be loyal and committed but we do like any other attractive women in general. Why we might like any other women? Because we want our genes to mix with someone who has good genes. This does not mean that the women we are currently with is unattractive.

5. We Like To Pose

Yes we also like to pose. It was decades ago when men who posed were perceived to be gay or weak. In the present men who can pose however they want without any limitations shows great ability and confidence. It is usually hard for some who might feel insecure or lack some self-esteem.

However men who like to try various poses and feel sexy doing it are thought to be very confident, happy, energetic, ambitious, driven, enthusiastic and creative. Otherwise think about it why would they do a certain pose?

When a man or women poses you can see the confidence and the satisfaction they are feeling from their body language. Many who are not afraid to be creative will try anything different and fresh. This helps improve someone’s confidence and makes them feel very happy. From personal experience I feel very happy when posing and feel even more happy when I see the photos on a laptop or mobile screen.

It makes you feel happy, confident, ambitious and etc if you view yourself in a positive manner because many look at their own photos in a negative manner. People who are in a negative mood before looking at their own photo will find many negative points about their own image while a positive mood helps see the positive points.

A Bad Day


Friends

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I usually post something on my blog on a Tuesday that is related to business, technology or love. Today I will not be posting anything new on YouTube or on this blog except this update about me. I am not very well and it is nothing serious but from what the nurse at the RVI hospital said after my treatment it made me feel strong. The nurse stated “you are a very brave person to endure so much pain”, at that point I wished my friends would appreciate me for who I am. I have usually tried to fit in with the British culture and society by communicating with people and copying their activities but still I felt I was not accepted because of my colour, ethnic backgroud, culture and religion. Many do not know me well enough to ever know my secrets, few friends who I did trust left me alone and caused me to mistrust others. If they had known my secrets then I would have been seen as a really strong person who does not give up and faces every challenge in life ranging from illness to education.

As humans we only try to protect ourselves from harm and this may be another human being who can cause harm. When someone you share your secrets with abandons you and forgets you as a best friend then you start to be cautious and never trust anyone until they have earned it. My standard to trust a friend has been that:

  • Someone is willing to take the time and make the effort to arrange a meeting. (Without me having to ask to meet)
  • Someone who understands your feelings and shares their own feelings.
  • Someone who is their for you as much as you are for them.
  • Someone who will still be your friend when single or in a relationship.
  • Someone who is not afraid to call you a friend or be seen with you.
  • Someone who is not afraid to show their emotions for their friend. (Friendly hugs & etc)

Its very depressing that many friends can not be like that. For me personally I have always been the friend to arrange a meeting, listen and show my support. Personally I have no friend who is happy to arrange a meeting with me without me initiating it in a conversation. I am very certain I don’t have a friend in a big city like Newcastle who has tried to understand my pain and be a good friend to make me happy. Many of the friends I know are too busy with their own lives, example boyfriends/girlfriends or just general stuff which they state takes up a lot of their time for me but are able to find time for other people.

What more can I say?

Thank you for reading this blog post. Look out for a blog post soon to be published called Modern Friends’.

Falling in Love Exposed


This post can help women understand that many men do have feelings and think about the women they like for long periods. There are men out there who take advantage of women who want to care and love them, men find them as easy targets because they fool them by displaying similar actions for a short period of time. Not all men are like that and there are some who stay committed to the person they love. The following list in no particular order is what women ask for in a loving man:

  • Listen to her for hours and follow every word
  • Share responsibility (bills, decoration, shopping & etc.)
  • Talking before making a joint decision
  • Look after her
  • Show public affection
  • Be considerate about her feelings at all times
  • Don’t expect to be told what to do
  • Buying her a gift
  • Taking her out (restaurant, cinema, shopping & etc.)
  • Bonding with her family
  • Making her No.1 before anyone or anything
  • Unconditional love
  • Making her dinner sometimes
  • Appreciating her personality
  • Appreciating her looks (body, clothes & etc.)
  • Taking control and having a sense of direction in life
  • Financial stability for her offspring to have the best opportunities in life
  • Letting her win the argument (fighting causes more problems)
  • 100% commitment
  • 100% trust (regular communication)
  • Giving her some space and time to her own life (work, friends & family)
  • Making her feel positive, confident and happy
  • A mature relationship
  • No regular arguments over the past
  • Consistent sense of excitement (activities, intimacy & etc.)
  • Both involved in activities around the house
  • Maintaining a shared hobby (gym, shopping, books, dancing & etc.)
  • Trying something new together
  • Telling each other what they have done/how they feel on a day-to-day basis
  • Any other I may have left! (you get my point though)

Ok. Since I’m being pretty general and theoretical here let’s get a bit more specific and talk about what every women dreams about: falling in love. Here’s how people fall in love: First, understand you do NOT fall in love with someone when you are in their presence. No. You fall in love when you’re off by yourself, thinking about them afterwards. This is why it is so hypnotically powerful, because you are doing it to yourself, and people are always best hypnotists.

Here’s how it happens: you go out with someone, maybe even one date. And then you go home, and you’re lying there, thinking about them. And, you form an image of them in your mind. And as you do that, you start to list to yourself all the qualities about them that you like, “She’s so, she’s so, she’s really.” Maybe then you picture you and them having lots of fun in all sorts of situations. Then you get that warm, funny feeling right in your solar plexus, and then, the nail in your coffin, you say her name to yourself 2 or 3 times. If you’re really a geek, maybe you even dance around the house like ‘Chandler’ from ‘FRIENDS’. Or you possible go about bringing up her name in every conversation with your friends.

Sound familiar? Now, as you recall the times in your past when you did this, were you then able to stay cool, in control of yourself AND the relationship? Or were you calling her every day, always wanting to see her, and sending her the signal of being clingy, to the point where she, of course, dumped you for a man who showed attributes of masculinity.

A man, in control, pulling her away from you. No, this does not mean all women want men like that. However women do like a man to be a man no matter what. She does not want to be the one who makes you feel better if you are in tears; she wants you to be the strong one and hug her when she is in tears and be a strong character in the relationship that is her rock. Overall this gives the relationship some stability and keeps the connection strong because you will be the one she comes to when there is a problem or when she needs to be loved. If you’re not like that then some women usually have a friend, a man, who is strong and her rock who she can go to. I want to clarify that this is not always the case and every relationship is unique. However many relationships are similar to what I have discussed in this paragraph.

Here’s the point: “Love” is a process people do to themselves! It’s not a “thing” you trip over or a “hole” you fall into. And I know, even though I’m not there watching you, that as I describe it here in this post, you recalled and went through that process yourself, and recalled the feelings associated with it. And if I can do it you, on a blog, when I’m not even there, then you can, if you know how, skilfully describe this (or any other) process to a women in your presence, link it to yourself, and in a matter of minutes, cause her to undergo that process and fall in love with you on the spot, dummy!

Think about this for a second instead of dismissing it as a process that won’t work. The dummy process you did to yourself can now be used to make her fawn all over you, repeatedly and predictably!