Things Are Going Well


At the moment things are going well and I hope it stays that way. I have used my knowledge, experience and other skills to improve different aspects of my life. If things keep going well then I will find it comfortable moving onto the next chapter of my life.

Many people to thank but they know I appreciate what they have done for me. With all the deaths in my family circle I keep thinking what is the point in some of the long-term plans that us humans make. What if they are unfulfilled while living or dead?

Money and success doesn’t really amount to much. You realise that no matter what, you are going in the same sized coffin and dirt that the poor person next to went in. Plus the thought of being in a confined place and being judged by your God for your sins and good deeds. The thing is your bank balance or success will be meaningless, good deeds that you have earned will be your wealth.
The money or success we earn is for this world only and as we know life is short and you can’t take it with you. It’s all for show and doesn’t last long like a roller coaster ride.

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The Rich & Poor


I’m not going to go into detail about this and just state that the rich get richer by fooling people or taking advantage and the poor get poorer for having a good heart. Simply put this means that people who are good and poor are seen as weak humans in today’s world and the rich see them that way in particular. They are seen as weak humans because they don’t do the awful things that only greedy, selfish and stuck-up people do. This is just one reason why you will see some of the people who are extremely rich or successful are always the ones who are corrupt and find a loophole to take advantage of average human beings moreover the government.

Hope you enjoyed reading this and I will make more time to update my blog every week.

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Life Has Slowed Down


There a certain phases in life you have to go through to become a better person. For example I am going through a phase that is enormously challenging for me mentally. Life tends to go at super speed when you have targets set that you want to achieve by a certain period. At the moment I do have targets set that I want to achieve but there is a feeling that they are not simple enough as handing in an essay or achieving a certain grade. When you’re outside of the academic life then there is no safety bubble to keep you from experiencing certain complications.

At certain moments in life there are certain situations that can arise and you can’t control anything. You just have to take it and keep going because that’s life. In life we can all feel as if everything has slowed down and we are stuck in a place which we can’t get out of. Especially for many people who have no job but the potential to be great in their chosen career. Clearly it’s our own perception that can change the speed of time in our lives. When we are enjoying life time can just pass by very quickly.

My ambitions and motivated attitude has many expectations in life and targets that need to be achieved. These are needs that when fed can provide amazing self-satisfaction. I am certain I will start progressing again in life furthermore be a better person because of my patient attitude through this slow and dark period.

Will try to write a daily.
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Naveed

Hard Life


I’ve always had to work hard myself to achieve any goals that I set for myself. They were never easy like it is for some, things always went  bad for me and I had to do stuff the hard way.

Long story but I’m kind of unlucky. But it has made me a strong person and I love to be faced with a challenge now because I feel very satisfied when I work hard and achieve anything.

There are many challenges I face at the moment involving family health problems, personal issues and other unlucky challenges I keep facing. I can never get what I want the easy way like some may be able to. I have to go through a lot before I finally achieve any goals.

I am really happy with the person I am today because having to work hard and not have it handed to me has made me mentally strong, confident, ambitious, enthusiastic and helpful. I feel great satisfaction from helping others who might have issues because I can connect with others and show compassion.

I don’t like to go on about myself so I will talk about something else now.

I believe this World we live in can be much better if we could be patient and not let ourselves become angry over small issues. Everyone has to face some sort of challenge in life to get what they want and there are some who can’t and resort to making others feel bad or taking it from them.

There is still some discrimination in this World and it is not perfect. I never felt any of that in University because of everyone being from different backgrounds. Together we are able to be effective by using the knowledge and advantages from our cultures. Individually we have some weaknesses and that does not help. As I said working together with different people helps us become better.

Most important point I wanted to make is that living in Newcastle for many years I have always felt that my family and myself have never felt accepted by our own kind (Pakistani Community). I don’t know if this is because of wealth, status or what. I hate the fact that many girls who have well off parents consider themselves to be better than others and be stuck up when talking to anyone who isn’t. They forget that at one time their ancestors were living in Pakistan and maybe not well-off. A person should not be like that to others because your fortune in life can change in a second.

I don’t like these divisions we have in our own culture/community. It causes issues between people and makes someone who is less unfortunate for a period to accept the challenge and work hard to show them they are not low class people. This actually is good in some ways because hunger to be someone drives you very hard to achieve your goals. To people like me and others who have that drive actually are put in a situation where they believe anything is possible. Just think of the Rocky movies that show someone who is unfortunate and because of the situation he is in he just has to achieve his goals. The hunger and drive of a person can help achieve anything. When someone is not in a bad situation and is surrounded by a family with no issues they may not feel the urge to achieve that success.

I am not saying people who have a healthy family environment or financial stability do not achieve anything. I am stating that if you are in a family environment where people are depending on your success and drive to bring stability then you will face the impossible to make it possible. We are natural survivors and the situations we are born into or put into can not be helped because we don’t decide the environment. So anyone who looks down upon another or can not even communicate with their own kind (humans, pakistani, british etc) is not a good person at all.

I have experienced it many times when Pakistani girls judge you straight away and don’t communicate in any friendly or human manner. They will see you as some burden if you can not help them gain anything in life, for example many I’ve realised in Newcastle are looking for the rich guy who they can marry and leech off from. At University many of my friends were from different backgrounds but none of the girls were from my own background (Pakistani). Why? Well because they chose very carefully who they wanted to talk to and usually it was the guys who had the expensive car and wealthy family. These kind of differences would hurt me a lot and make me feel as if I had to prove something.

In the end I didn’t bother with them because I would not waste my time on people who are so materialistic and full of pride with no rock solid foundations of life. I just dislike Pakistani girls in Newcastle because they are the most stubborn and stuck-up. You would say “Hi” in person, Facebook or Twitter and you would get this look or reaction as if you’re a piece of garbage. I would rather marry a Pakistani girl from Pakistan any day of the week instead of any Pakistani girl in the UK. They have no consideration for religion, culture or tradition. All they see is how wealthy a guy is and if they can marry him and not have to live any kind of hard life. They want a life full of leisure and no hard work like our Pakistani ancestors had. I would not want a person in my life who raised my/her children to have things handed to them on a plate.